Those Crazy Kids

1962 57 years 1 month later Here are my parents. Grandma and Poppa. Actually Great Grandparents now! They both graduated from high school but had just barely turned 18 and 20 when they got married in 1962. My Grandmother had to sign the paperwork for my Dad to get married…

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It Smells Like What???

Raise your hand if you have not heard that Gwyneth Paltrow has a candle that smells like her Vagina? I didn’t think so. When Big E said “did you hear about this candle that is supposed to smell like someone’s V ?” I had to Google an image of Gwyneth…

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Martin Luther King Jr. Day

How appropriate on the day scheduled for boundaries we celebrate Martin Luther King Jr. the man who worked and ultimately gave his life while working towards breaking the boundaries, and barriers that kept people of color from being treated equally in the United States. He said in his famous speech;…

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Confession of Self Care Mishap

Why Did I do this? Here it is confession of self care mishap! Check out those nails and I promise the other hand is just as bad. I’ve been going to get my nails manicured every three weeks, I get them French because it lasts one week longer than color…

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It Takes All Kinds

When someone is my friend I am all in. I mentioned my Amigas and I think what would be interesting to some is how different we are. I know I am totally going to get in trouble for this post and that’s o.k. I’ve been in trouble with them before…

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Fearless on Social Media Part 2

Here is part 2 as promised. First let me start with this: I am not declaring a political party on this site. I will keep most of my political opinions to myself. But I am shaking my head over the fearlessness of people on social media regarding the way they…

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Self Awareness

I wrote on the 6th about boundaries and how hard they used to be for me. I think a huge part of that is because of lack of self awareness. Good ole Webster says self awareness is: Conscious knowledge of one’s own character, feelings, motives, and desires. There is a…

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Laughter

Why is this marked self care? Because I love to laugh! And I know that if I go for a while without laughing I get moody and down in the dumps and a little grey. Not cool especially for the people who live with me. In December 2017 I lost…

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Types of Friendships

I got on Facebook to introduce this blog and I was able to “see” a lot of people that I have not been in touch with for quite some time. It was nice to see the response when I sent out request. A couple of people said I have been…

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